Divorce can be a challenging ordeal that profoundly impacts individuals and families in several ways. Positive preparatory actions can make the process less overwhelming and can help bring about a faster and more favorable outcome. Equally important is not to take actions that can interrupt achieving these goals.

The following are some practical steps you can undertake once you are on a path toward ending your marriage:

• Consult with professionals — An experienced divorce attorney can familiarize you with the divorce laws in your jurisdiction and can provide valuable insights into your legal rights and obligations. A financial advisor can assist in understanding the economic implications, while a counselor or therapist can offer emotional support.
• Gather financial documents — Collect all relevant financial records, including bank statements, tax returns, investment portfolios and property deeds. This information will be vital in determining asset distribution, alimony and/or child support.
• Carry on clear communication — Clearly express your needs, concerns, and expectations to your spouse and legal representatives. This transparency can pave the way for amicable negotiations and potentially can reduce conflict.
• Prioritize your children's well-being — If children are involved, keep their best interests in mind throughout the divorce process. Consider a parenting plan that outlines custody arrangements, visitation schedules and financial responsibilities.

At the same time, you should avoid actions that can have a deleterious effect on your divorce. Observe the following:

• Don’t let emotions dictate decisions — Emotions tend to run high during divorce, but you should avoid making impulsive choices driven by anger or hurt. Instead, approach the process with a rational mindset aimed at securing the best possible outcome.
• Don’t hide assets — Attempting to conceal assets or to manipulate financial records can lead to legal consequences and can damage your credibility in court.
• Don’t move out — Unless your personal safety is in jeopardy, you should not leave the marital home. Moving out can negatively affect your rights concerning property division and even child custody. If you believe are a victim of domestic abuse, your attorney can file a motion for temporary possession of the home while the divorce is pending.
• Don’t neglect self-care — Divorce can take an emotional toll and neglecting self-care can exacerbate the stress. Take the time to prioritize your mental and physical health by seeking support from friends, family and counselors.

By following the do's and avoiding the don'ts outlined above, individuals can navigate divorce with greater facility and can help foster a healthier post-divorce environment for everyone involved.

If you are planning on filing for divorce in New Jersey, the Law Offices of Kelli M. Martone is ready to assist. My firm is conveniently located in Haddon Heights serving Camden, Burlington, and Gloucester counties. Please call 856-432-4587 or contact me online to schedule a free initial consultation.