Every child deserves to be safe in their home. They also deserve to have loving relationships with their parents. Terrible physical and emotional harm can result when a parent abuses their child or neglects to meet their basic needs. Swift action should be taken whenever a young person is in danger, and relationships frequently end because of domestic violence. However, even after you’ve decided to divorce or break up with a partner who is no longer married, there are still numerous issues that need to be worked out.

Even a parent who has mistreated their son or daughter still has legal rights, so custody decisions and other divorce arrangements can become very complicated. Determinations on legal and physical custody are to be made based on what is in the child’s best interests. New Jersey law specifically states that parental history of domestic violence, the safety of the child and environment in each parent’s home are factors that must be considered.

Each situation is unique, and as you go through a transition, there is no way to predict exactly how a judge will evaluate the facts and incorporate what they have learned into their final order. However, there are some steps you can take to improve the likelihood of an appropriate result, including:

• Keep a record — Though it can be difficult, you should collect as much evidence as possible regarding your partners improper behavior. Take photographs of any physical harm, see a doctor when there is a concern and write down each disturbing incident of violence and neglect.
• Seek safe options — Don’t sacrifice your son or daughter’s safety for harmony with your ex. There are several safe ways that a previously abusive or neglectful parent can have visitation with their children. You might seek a court order requiring that these visits be supervised.
• Hire an experienced lawyer — Coping with a breakup and the effects of domestic abuse at the same time can be overwhelming. Fortunately, you don’t have to go it alone. Retaining an attorney with strong knowledge of New Jersey divorce and child custody law can help you understand what options are available given your specific circumstances.

The effects of domestic abuse and neglect can be wide-ranging. Concern over a child’s welfare might have prevented one parent from seeking employment outside the home and this could affect an alimony or property division determination. A parent who is not capable of hosting their child in their home might be compelled to provide extra child support. Whatever your situation entails, it’s important to develop a sound strategy with your family law attorney.

Martone Law Group, LLC, located in Haddon Heights, represents New Jersey clients in divorce and child custody proceedings. We serve clients in Camden, Burlington, Gloucester and Atlantic counties. Call us today at 856-432-4587 or contact us online to schedule an initial consultation.